Yesterday I was talking about discourse. One of the things I always find amazing is how quickly people are willing to call names.
- Calling someone a name weakens your argument
- When you argue with the person, you open the door for them to argue with you .
It is an interesting reality sometimes. The internet allows for the anonymous approach to human interaction. That was not available 30 or 40 years ago. The internet was just a baby then. Now it is a full-fledged toddler, and there are lots of Nos! One of the things I have noticed about people willing to deride others and use names and name-calling is that they cause issues. The issue is that fewer and fewer people interact on the site. The second is. Eventually, the administration team is forced to remove them.
When you dive into name-calling, you are on the edge of Cyber Bullying. I say the edge because if you only do it in replies or comments, it is less impactful than chasing someone across sites and doing that. So if it is one comment at a time or multiple comments on a single thread, it remains less dangerous than if you chase that person to another site. Commenting and chasing are two different things. One isn’t nice and really shouldn’t be allowed by sites. The other is very dangerous and should result in the person getting help.
The sad reality of the internet is that people think it is ok to call names. We had a politician that did that in the US. It isn’t acceptable, nor is it something people should do. Attacking a human being only destroys your argument. If your argument is so weak you can’t carry the argument and start calling names, then, in the end, you, the one who called the name or names, jose the argument.
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