Continuing to clean up my Hubpages feed. This is an article that links to another article and podcasts.
Same wish list time. Same wish list channel. If you remember the old 1960 Batman television show, you’ll remember those old shoes. I want to follow up publication I made about three weeks ago, the Wishlist challenge. A friend of mine had her husband give her a blank piece of paper with the words wish list on it. She asked, how many wishes do you think I should make? And he said 1000 2000. So she started coming up with requests for the grandchildren with her husband, and they came up with the idea of making a wish list. She mentioned it to me, and I thought, well, that is interesting, so I took a blank piece of paper and handed it to my wife. I talked about all that in the blog shared here called the Wishlist challenge.
You’ll find a link to that at the end of the article. But I want to follow up with what happened next to the number of people who have emailed me and said, hey, how do I do the wish list challenge? Now there are many ways. The first way is the way my friend and her family did. You have a family meeting you get together to share ideas about 1000, thousand, or 2000 wish list items. That comprises the wish list. You then start crossing items off that list. The other way is the way my wife and I did, which is we turned our Saturday night date night into the wish list night. We sat down and had a nice dinner, relaxing, and took her to let us compare. What interested me was the number of items we had in common. We agreed that the items in common were just “accepted.” were accepted. The other items we had were not the same as we discussed. We took those and said all right. We want to make short-term and long-term goals. The short-term goals we want to start working on right away. Then while working on the short-term goals, we want to talk about how we will accomplish the long-term goal. Some of our long-term goals included a hot air balloon ride that was mine. I have wanted to do that since I was a little kid, and my wife said, ” Well if you’ve tried to do it that long, we should certainly do it now. My wife’s biggest dream is to go traveling internationally. I traveled for many years for work and many different countries, but life is only five countries, so she wants to see a few more.
In our initial conversation, we came up with some short-term and long-term goals. The intent was to work on the short-term goals all week and talk about the longer ones while working on the short-term ones.
Short Term and Long Term Goals
Short Term
- Do yoga together
- Cook more meals together
- Join the data challenge program
Long Term
- Travel Internationally
- Travel more around the US
- Ride in a hot air balloon
I shortened the two lists a little as some of the longer-term items take more explanation than I have space and time to cover. The first one, doing yoga together, is something we have talked about doing for years. As my father always used to say, we never got “a Round Tuit.” He had circular cardboard cutout that said Tuit in the middle. So he had a Round, Tuit!
The other two are ones that were new but old. We’ve done cooking together in the past, but never as a consistent part of our time. We made Hummus and Moussaka for date night a few nights ago. The last thing was something my wife found, a fun set of a couple of activities we could do together.
As we did our first yoga exercises, we discussed the longer-term goals. We agreed to talk about the long term while doing the short term. We also talked about longer-term goals while we were making dinner for date night.
My wife asked my daughter, interested in Calligraphy, if she would take our list and make a wish list book. (she did, see the picture). That way, you can always reference which wishes you have made and which ones you haven’t. Plus, it just looks cool!
To end today, I wanted to talk about time. It took us about 40 minutes to generate our lists and then sit down and combine them. So the investment in time was not a lot. My daughter and wife spent more time creating the pretty new Wish List Book than we did making our lists in the first place.
Remember, you don’t have to do this with your spouse. The challenge can work with sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, or friends. Anyone with whom you wish to spend quality time.
Plus, I call it a shampoo challenge; once you are done, just like shampoo, rinse and repeat!
Link to the two Wish List podcasts
https://docandersen.podbean.com/e/the-wish-list-challenge/
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2bxa5-dc9292
Link to the original article
https://hubpages.com/relationships/Introducing-the-Wish-List-Challenge
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